Fork in the Road December – Week 3

We are in Week Three in a month of reward or conflict, you decide which it will be. This blog post shares how you navigate conflict well using the palm of your hand. This week we look at how to win with a Head Line that more easily takes the ‘upper hand’.

When your Head Line reaches the outside edge of your hand, anywhere under the little finger, you more naturally speak or stand up for yourself with facts and intuition. It can feel frustrating when others won’t join you in a discussion or debate.

In fact you can be the big picture person that sometimes despairs when others can’t see it too. Patience is required and you have to watch for that inner demon of superiority. Be mindful you don’t dismiss others who aren’t wired to feel safe or comfortable with disagreement. Keep in mind conflict can feel overwhelming, not because they are weak but because they’ve been wired to fear it. How you handle it can help another step into that arena and discover their courage, or you can send them fleeing you and seeing you as the bully even when you aren’t.

Let’s start first with the Air Head Line that stays higher up in the hand. This line ends under the pinky region on the outside of your hand. Since you have the strongest mental ability, you can win with words and ideas all the time. Your challenge is to learn to listen and care what others think. It’s not just a win/lose opportunity. It’s a chance to be curious and connect with others, even when you see things differently. You can do the most growth this month when you measure success differently. Let your mind find bridges between people instead of widening the gap with right/wrong thinking.

Now it’s time for our great visionary explorers, the Fire Head Line. Your Head Line travels to the bottom outside quarter of your hand. This month you have to check what your vision serves up and question your interpretations on what you see. It’s too easy to jump to conclusions, and while you may discover some completely unexplored region, let’s do it safely. You can be the most impatient with those who don’t get it and respond with some heat. You are Fire, after all.

Keep in mind that you are meant to help unleash all the potential fire power between people when you use warmth to bring them closer, instead of blow torch those who don’t ‘get it’. If anyone can see how to use all the different points of view and actions to improve the situation, you are the most visionary of solution finders when you temper your approach with a dollop of patience and faith.

To dig deeper on your type, you can watch Metaphysical Minds’ discussion of Head Lines here with Shay Parker and Lisa Greenfield outlining what you can do best.

Next week we put it all together, just in time for the holiday conversations. I’m with the Dalai Lama who said ‘anyone who thinks they’re enlightened, spend a week with your family’. While me might not be there in person it could be a great time to break old patterns!

Author: Lisa Greenfield

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Fork in the Road December – Week 2

December serves up a month of reward or conflict, you get to decide which it will be. One key to which way you goes is there in the palm of your hand, literally. So let’s explore more on how to use your ‘martial’ talents to put you in the winner circle instead of on the floor in a knockout.

How you were taught to think, speak and act on your behalf shows up in the Head Line (which travels through the Mars region on your hand). The left hand is your internal or personal process, the right hand reveals what the world sees.

The further a line travels, the more it picks up steam. Shorter and/or curved lines that end under the Apollo finger absorbed challenges in speaking up or acting on their behalf in a conflict.

Now comes the important bit. You have to stretch this month. Growth is not optional, resistance is painful – so let’s give you a hand there.

If you usually give in to others, you will be required to stand up for yourself better. This doesn’t mean fight, rather it means stretch a bit.

Circumstances pop up to help provoke you to flex a new muscle. The Universe isn’t mean, it’s offering practice to consider both yourself and others in disagreement.

Disagreement is important, even necessary in times of great chaos or change. It helps us consider points of view from a bigger range of possibilities than agreement ever would. We have to let go of simple solutions that pit us against each other. All hands on deck are needed now, pun intended.

So time to find out more about your particular style…

If your Head Line ends under the ring finger (aka the Apollo finger) time to open up to the world a bit more. Be curious about where you missed seeing your power and impact on others. Good news, you don’t have to shout, even soft voice carries power when you speak your centered Truth.

The shorter, straighter Head Line is an Earth Head Line. You prefer actions to words and prefer familiar to unfamiliar. You also jump to conclusions that underestimate your own strength. You tend to leave the conversation and head back to safe familiar space

or come out swinging fast. Familiar is survivable, so when that’s threatened you can react quickly. You actually represent the bedrock on which life stands, but may miss seeing your strength which is when you pull back OR swing first to ‘stay safe’. Time to see more of the real you.

When your Headline is longer and curves down but stays under that ring Apollo finger, you aren’t quick to act. Instead you can imagine a million different things that can go wrong. You drown in worst case scenarios before you open your mouth. Instead of imagining the worst time to trust your enormously mind to help have that deeper conversation.

Risk is hard on you and conflict is so uncomfortable when your head line ends on the inside of your hand. Yet you have to practice the discomfort of speaking your truth instead of resentment for those who don’t automatically know it or see it. Remember, water wears down a rock, so use your artfully expressed point of view that is hardest to resist, when you persist!

Next week we dive into the outside lines and how to win the change game and land on the high road for you. If you want more on this subject check out Metaphysical Minds Broadcast here where Shay and Lisa dive deeper.

Until next week, where we tackle the outside head lines.

Author: Lisa Greenfield

December 9, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , , , best american psychics | Conflict | december | Lisa Greenfield | palmistry | Psychic | Reward | Truth in Hand
Fork In The Road December

December serves up a month of reward or conflict; you decide which it will be. This fork in the road is going to unfold over the next 200 years astrologically, but you live in the kick-off period, lucky YOU. Seriously, you get to help set the tone and what you do now matters more than possibly any other time in your life.

Which is why when I tell you that you win the day when you DON’T act, at least not right away, it may confuse you. Let me clear that up, so you get to the reward portion of the month. Mars sits in Aries for almost six months this year. Aries is the beginning of the Zodiac and it’s a chance to start fresh on how we do things.

WHAT you do matters less than how you do it. Don’t get me wrong, what you do does matter. It’s just that HOW you do it matters more. When we move quickly, we pull from muscle memory and brain stem automatic response. So, if you react too fast on things that aren’t urgent, you box yourself into old patterns.

Except, in times of change, those old patterns don’t fit any better than shoes you wore in first grade. So, it’s time for a new pair of shoes, metaphorically speaking. When you slow down, pause, and take a good look around, you are free to take in more information than a rapid response would give you.

Your ‘conditioned response’ is actually stamped on your hand. You see, the lines in your hand include a ‘Mars’ region. It reveals your risk tolerance, your courage, your typical action style. All that in your Head line that runs right through that section on your hand.

But for the sake of efficient information, you will receive news you can use on what your hand has to offer! Each week this month we explore a bit more about the line, the region, and how to use yours wisely.

Because for anyone stuck in a Groundhog Day response this year, the pressure to change is building. The first weeks of January serve a wallop for those who dig in and refuse to grow. Much like a cork on heated champagne, it’s going to fly unless you find the way to let a new path emerge. So let’s get you on the better path, right?

Outside conflict points you in the right direction on what’s inside your mind to help you turn that corner. Next week we explore a bit more on how to use your martial talents to put you in the winner circle instead of on the floor in a knockout. Start with a peek at your hand.

You can get a free sample online reading at Next week we will start the breakdown on your line and how to harness the power on hand for your best life when you tune in here. In the meantime, pause before you act…You’ll be very glad you did!

Author: Lisa Greenfield


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Weighing Your Heart in Heaven for All You’ve Done on Earth

We have all been conditioned to fear Judgement day at the end of our mortal days.

How are the scales bought into balance after judgement day? We must see who we are at that point, when all the lies that built our earthly life and actions are taken away and we are in the blinding light and love of the creator. We can become broken in our human lives and consequently make horrible choices. All of our lives are built around making sense of our pain in order to survive. When we pass to the other side, we are lovingly taken apart, healed and slowly put back together so that our experiences and choices can be seen with compassion and wisdom.

In the Spiritualist’s tradition the theology is that God, creator of all that is, intended that all the experience, knowledge and understanding we gathered during life be brought with us after physical passing to grow and learn from. Our consciousness survives after the change called death. We bring with us all the experiences that shaped us and the choices and consequences of those choices. Then we review it. All of it. Good, bad or indifferent we will pass into this new existence and be given the opportunity to review our life based on those experiences, how we have used them, and our effect on others and the world in general. Then and only then can we evaluate our worth as a human being.

What is a good life and a poorly lived life? If all of us lived our lives to the best of our abilities with due regard to others, taking into account the  trials and tribulations of life, and in the end can live with the consequences and our conscious of what we have done, that is the best we can do. Living a good, successful life has very little to do with fame or fortune, it has to do with the beauty and wealth of your spirit you touched the world with.

This principle expresses the natural law of cause and effect, a law that operates on earth as well as the afterlife. What we do now affects the growth of our Soul. In the afterlife we will be accountable for how we lived our life according to our Soul’s development. If we were meant to learn patience, did we avoid the opportunity or embrace it?

After our passing from physical form, when we are re-united with our Soul and the Creator, we are home, we are valued, our human lives matter. Our experience, knowledge and understanding from our magnificent lives are so very cherished.

Our life’s experiences influenced us, changed us and the people around us. We may have impacted our society as a whole. Our actions were geared to expand the spirit within us. Each action will be considered and valued. Our physical existence and experiences were preparing us for the end of our life. Every experience, thought, feeling, action in that human existence comes with us. It is the celebration of heaven to receive us back home and to hear of our journey and our challenges. Nothing is wasted.

God, or infinite intelligence love and light, is energy and not a corporal being. Let’s talk about compensation and retribution as a simple cause and effect, as in energetic ripples.

The law or principle of Cause and Effect state that every cause has an effect, every effect has its cause. Nothing happens by sheer chance. When we experience what seems like a random event, or even something that seems like a coincidence, it has a cause somewhere. Whether physical or mental or energetic, something set “it” in motion. The effect of one action becomes the cause of another action, creating a chain of events. Everything that happens not only in your life, happens in everyone else’s life. It has a root somewhere.

Every thought and feeling you have, action you take, causes an effect to you, to someone else, or to something else. You must be careful and accept responsibility for everything you do. Your thoughts, intentions, or action are amplified as they move out into the universe and then they return to you with a much more powerful impact.

There is no judgement, punishment, or reward to this process of cause and effect. Whatever you put out comes back to you, amplified. Do what you will and let it harm no one. You can do anything you want, BUT, you must accept, and you will be compelled to accept, the consequence of your actions. If you harm no one, no harm will come to you. This is the law behind the golden rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  So: The next time you resent someone getting away with something “bad,” just wait and watch, and be glad it isn’t you who will have to pay for it later.

Author: Nancy Smith

November 25, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , , afterlife | BAP | cause and effect | Heaven | judgement day | nancy smith | Soul
Who is the Creator?

The mystical power of creation is at the core of every religion and spiritual belief. 

This Creator power is usually personified by the mindset and culture of the time. In some cases, the personification of this power becomes a communally agreed upon religious belief which supports the lifestyle of that culture.

Consistent throughout humanity’s search for meaning and spiritual expression is the mystery of something beyond our individual self. Something within ourselves searches and imagines there is a beginning, a mind, or a presence that is greater than ME. Part of our intuitive being wants to understand and relate to, and even return to, the place I came from.

Humanity has given many names to the source and divinity from where we came. Mother, Father, God Creator of all that is; Infinite Intelligence of love and light; The Creator; Akasha, Yahweh; Abba; Elohim; El Shaddai; Al Quddus; Jehovah. The Jewish tradition has 72 names for god. Each of these names holds a meaning of a specific attribute of God. 

Spiritualism’s core belief and philosophy is the acceptance of a Divine Energy. A supreme impersonal Power, everywhere present, manifesting as life, through all forms of organized matter. Though this power is impersonal, our understanding of this source can be gained by our personal journeys and perceptions of this creative force. This force, whatever name given to it, has created all there is and sustains all its creation.

Spiritualists also believe that the “Spirit of God” exists within and around everyone and everything. We are all children of god and so are part of one family. As spiritualists we acknowledge this one source as our Father, Mother, Creator.

This Energy of God the Creator ensures that order and harmony exist, which enables us to thrive in the galaxy in which we live. Without God we are nothing, with God we are everything. God is seen as (and often called by spiritualists) “Essence of Life” with the understanding that all life, not just human life, is important in God’s scheme. This includes all life forms known an unknown. Seeing God as the essence of life brings reassurance that all life is equal. This equality doesn’t stop at Humanity, it extends to all life from single cell amoebas to the most complex of beings.

We may not know how important our relationship is to all other beings as we live out our life, but as Spiritualists this we know for sure: we are being asked to travel on a path of spiritual progression, to strive to improve our own life as well as the lives of all those we meet.

“The Essence of Life” is energy. Conscious, loving, creative energy. This concept speaks not to a human animation of God the Father. This Essence embraces both feminine and masculine, this essence has no separation. Many religions personify God and a being with jealousies, preferences and human-like judgements. This is not the case as seen by spiritualists. Within God are all aspects of natural law that make up creation. These aspects of the Creator are way beyond what our human mind can take in.

My Own Version of Creation

In the beginning, there was Divine Consciousness.

This consciousness is LOVE. Unconditional Love.

Love wanted to express itself.

“I Am,” said Love, and so it is.

 Love became the creator with these words. Love desired to experience love and continues to create.

Divine Love created little souls, just like itself. Each soul is unique and individual, ready to grow and learn. Love calls these little souls, I AM.

The creator, Divine Love, made light, space, and form for these souls to grow up in. They could experience their own nature and unique selves in everything the creator made. The souls took many forms as they grew and experienced themselves. The souls were never separate from the Creator Love, no matter what form they chose to take.

The creator’s consciousness became full. All possibilities, all knowing, all thoughts, and all things created fill the consciousness of the creator. Not one thing is forgotten. Love and Creation are all one in the same.

Author: Nancy Smith,

November 16, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , creator | divine | God | Love | nancy smith
Social Distancing and Self-Discovery

Part 3: Using Chaos for Change

Do you know how a catalytic converter works?  It basically takes a substance, connects it with another substance and, in a dramatic chemical reaction, creates a third more useful (or at least tolerable) substance. It basically takes something bad and converts it into something good or at least neutral. So for those who are struggling with the myriad of chaotic and maybe even harmful changes brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic, I say try thinking of this chaos as a spiritual catalytic converter.

Think of it this way, the spiritual and soul climate of the world has not been in very good shape for quite a while. It was rapidly declining and polluting the collective consciousness. I think we can all agree on that, can’t we?  Now think of all those light workers out there who have been working and battling for raising the collective vibration. Seems like they were fighting a losing battle sometimes, doesn’t it, especially with the onset of the pandemic?  But what if, and hear me out, what if the pandemic was like a catalytic converter?  What if it’s taking harmful collective negativity, processing it via dramatic change brought on by a pandemic, effectively changing a negative into a positive?

What if the chaos of the pandemic and social unrest/awareness issues is an opportunity for massive positive change? Well, it’s not really a question of what if, it’s a question of…Do you see it yet? And more importantly, are you going to continue to focus on the general spiritual malaise of the collective consciousness or raise your vibration to be part of the catalytic change?

We stand at a spiritual crossroads right now. In the words of Morgan Freeman’s character Red Redding in Shawshank Redemption, “You either get busy living or get busy dying.”  We have a choice, get busy making positive change within ourselves, or we get busy letting the negativity consume us until all of humanity is gone.

Sounds like a big job, doesn’t it? But here’s the truth. You aren’t supposed to change the world. You are supposed to change YOU. And while that’s not always an easy task, changing our own personal energy is much easier than changing the entire world. And I’ll give you a little spoiler alert right here:  If you change YOU –  your energy – you will have already changed the world.

Author: Samantha Hall

October 28, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , , , BAP | self discovery
Finding 7th Heaven

The progression of a soul in heaven!

In the book Universal Spiritualism: Spirit Communion in All Ages Among All Nations, WJ Colville describes the levels or layers of heaven. In chapter 19 of this book, The Spirit World—as seen and Described by One Who has Visited It Frequently, Colville speak about the writings of Charles W. Leadbeater. Leadbeater describes the heavenly regions which are “shut out of carnal eyes.”

These heavenly regions are worlds of subtler substance than the physical world, interpenetrating it, and therefore all around us. Heaven is the world of thought, the mental plane, a supreme state of consciousness.  Hence the saying “The kingdom of Heaven which is within you.”

Leadbeater describes planes of existence as: an astral plane exists that is a feeling plane; the physical plane, the familiar earth of the senses, the world of action.  The physical body is the body of action. And a spiritual plane with the immortal Soul, which lives forever, in the heaven world and communicates with the physical world by means of physical impacts transmitted to the physical brain, then to the astral. Thence to the mental body.

The Soul is the immortal thinker and ego. As Leadbetter traveled up through the seven heavens he sensed a radiance of welcome and an absence of evil and discord. He felt intense bliss. He describes these levels of heaven as this:

The lowest and first heaven is affection for family and friends, unselfish, and mostly focused on the earth plane the spirit just left. The spirits in this first level of heaven think of themselves as still being very much part of earth. They pour love and grace onto those left in earthly world. Those on earthly world receive the benefits of the love showered down upon them. Conscious communication is possible from this layer of heaven.

The second heaven is an anthropomorphic religious devotion. These spirits carry out devotion and adoration of deities from their earthly experience. They perform specific tasks in alignment with the religious beliefs they have carried into heaven with them. These tasks are practiced in this realm. When the spirit is ready to progress they move to the third realm of service. In this second realm your spirit sorts out religious dogma and beliefs that you have held to keep you close to God, however you believed God to be. This is a place, along with the third heavenly realm,  of miracles and understanding the true nature of creation. (LOTS of engineers and bishops hang out here for YEARS…)

The third heavenly realm is about devotion expressing itself in active work. The spirit in this realm is going out to actively do deeds of service for the deity he/she is devoted too. In this realm the spirit travels back into earthly plane and into heaven to experiment with their own theories of God and creation. These spirits often Create miracles with those they are connected to on the earth plane.

The fourth heavenly realm is the place of GENIUS and is arranged in four categories:

  • Unselfish pursuit of spiritual knowledges
  • High philosophy and scientific thought
  • Literary or artistic ability expressed for unselfish purposes
  • Service for the sake of service.

This heaven is filled with noble and unselfish thinkers who seek insight and knowledge for the purpose of enlightening and helping others. Great musicians such and Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, Wagner and many others can be found here, still flooding the heavenly world with harmony and glory. For the lonely artist, upon entering this heaven, joy surges back on him as he is reunited with his / her source. Through meditation and enlightenment, a soul still in earthly form may connect to this world for strength, encouragement and a return to his/ her power of creativity.

The fifth heaven is the true home of the soul of nearly all mankind. It is the most populated of all the heavens. All in those in this heaven are engaged in the present human evolution. These souls are in all ranges of awareness and development. Spirit can move around in all the 5 levels at will as they desire.

The sixth heaven is a peaceful countryside compared to the fifth heaven, the busy city. This heaven doesn’t contain as may souls as the fifth heaven. This is a loftier level where souls have advances to an awareness of the purpose and methods of evolution. This Soul knows he/she is engaged in the work of self-development. He/she has self-awareness to guide his or her own personality to a higher level of principles.

The seventh heaven of the mental contains the “Masters of Compassion and Wisdom” and all the initiated pupils. These souls work for the evolution of the human race, acting directly on souls incarnate, stimulating spiritual growth, enlightening intellect and purifying emotions. The seventh heaven is where the incarnate human souls retrieve their “genius” and receive their illumination. This is where all souls longing to grow and expand their human lives find their guidance.

Thus, as in everywhere else, the highest glory of the heavenly realms is found in service. Those who have accomplished their mental evolution are fountains from which flow strength for those who are still climbing.

Physical life is just one element of our existence, when we die, we pass to another form, with MANY other opportunities to refine our spirit. Once in heaven, the journeys will continue in the spirit world, through all the many heavens, until eventually we return back to where we came from, Mother Father God creator of all.

Author: Nancy Smith

September 24, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , , BAP | best american psychics | Heaven | nancy smith | realm | service | Spirit
Your Soul’s Progression

Our Spirit Continues after death, we all go to Heaven!

God saw everything that God had made, and indeed, it was very good.

—(Gen. 1:31)

“The heavens are telling the glory of God;
And the firmament proclaims
The divine handiwork….
In the heavens God has set a tent
for the sun, which comes out like a bridegroom
from his wedding canopy,

and like a strong man

runs its course with joy.
Its rising is from the end of the heavens,
and its circuit to the end of them;
and nothing is hid from its heat.

—(Ps. 19:1-6)

Closing time 
Time for you to go out: go out into the world. 
Closing time 

You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.

Closing time 
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.

Closing time 
Time for you to go back to the places you will be from

I know who I want to take me home. 
I know who I want to take me home. 
I know who I want to take me home. 
Take me home


I have heard it said that death is the opposite of life, but I believe this to be a misunderstanding. If one believes in opposites, then physical death is the opposite of human birth and this is a progression of your spirit. Death is the gateway to our spiritual conscious self. There is no opposite of life. There is only continuation of life. In fact, Life is interwoven and interrelated between our human physical form and our spiritual form in a magnificent intricate weaving of thought, love and energies.

What happens when we die? How do we heal, learn and grow once our physical life has ended?  Once we are in our spiritual form, we see who we are at our essence, when all the illusions that we built in our earthly life and the things we did are removed, we stand in the blinding light and love of the creator. We can become broken in our human lives. People can make horrible choices when they are broken. Their lives, all of our lives actually, are built around making sense of our pain in order to survive. When we pass to the other side, we are lovingly taken apart, healed and slowly put back together so that our experiences and choices can be seen with compassion and wisdom.

After our passing from physical form, when we are re-united with our Soul and the Creator we are home, we are valued, our human lives matter. Our experience, knowledge and understanding from our magnificent human lives are so very cherished.

We are given ample time to review and assess and evaluate our life based on those experiences. This time of review includes healing, atonement and many chances to explore what we created with our lives.

During this time of review, we are guided with love and compassion by our Soul, our Guides that have stayed with us throughout our life, and by our loved ones who were in human form when we were. We are asked to make an honest assessment of what transpired in our lives. After this review, we, as conscious Spirit forms, are given opportunities to grow and learn from the experiences of our human life. When the consequences of our actions in life become overwhelming and seem to swallow us up, our Creator, Our Soul, Our Loving guides will gently hold us and help us bring back to balance that which we have torn asunder. We may need to make amends, and that is up to us and our creator as to what that will be. The door will always be open to atonement, to learning and to growing into the highest potential of our Souls.

In many a mediumship reading, I have felt the new interests and learning some spirits embark on after physical life. Some are very curious to study the events of their lives that caused them pain.  These spirits want to help those left behind to create something different and with healing. Some desire to explore and travel and enjoy things on earth they were not able to. Some return to the people they caused pain and damage to and work to bring healing and balance as guides or behind the scenes. It is often clear from these spirit messages that their own learning and growing is continuing, with the veil being pulled aside they remember the healing nurturing love they forgot when they were alive. The Message to us from spirit is to embrace yourself now in compassion and forgiveness. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and accepting of yourself in this moment. Do the best you can. You are important, you matter, just the way you are!

Author: Nancy Smith

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Before You Hire a Psychic Medium – Part Four

In Parts Three and Four of my series, we looked at the difference between a Medium and a Psychic reading and how you can recognize if you are potentially being scammed. We also have looked at ways to find an ethical Medium or Psychic. So how do you be sure to have the best reading possible?

It takes all of us! Yes, we all have to actively participate in the process. This starts with you doing your homework in finding the right Medium or Psychic that you feel connected to. You want to feel good about your choice, so you can trust your Reader and relax during the session. Any tension can have a negative outcome for your reading. It’s best to read any FAQ’s or instructions the Reader has listed on their website or provided you. Spending a few extra minutes reading how to enhance your reading and learning any rules you need to follow will only benefit you. Rules are there usually to help you have a good outcome for your reading.

I also want to mention a subject that’s sensitive. Please don’t “test” the Medium or Psychic. Most of us are very empathic and can feel this energy immediately. This will kill the reading. If you feel like you need to test your Medium or Psychic, I will say you have not found the right Reader for you yet, so I would highly recommend that you keep looking. Before booking a session, ask yourself if you fully trust this person before hiring them. Again, you want to go into a reading feeling confident with who you hired. Why waste your money and time, or ours?

Our job as Mediums or Psychics, is to deliver any information we receive during a session as clearly and accurately as possible. This takes a lot of work on our end. This work starts outside of your reading. We have prayer and meditation practices. Many of us have been on our own healing journey and continue with our own self-care routines. We also take time to further our education by working with mentors, taking classes or sitting in development circles, even those who are naturally gifted. Some of us will become certified. These are all hallmarks of an ethical Psychic Medium who won’t take advantage of you.

For a terrific reading, not only is it important for you and the Reader to do their part, but Spirit and your guides must do their part too! Believe it or not, there are better Spirit Communicators than others, just as there are those of us who communicate better in the physical world. This is one reason why Mediums will further their education, to learn how Spirit works with them. Some of us receive more literal details, while others receive more symbols, so it’s our job to learn what’s in our Spirit library, so we can deliver validations and messages as accurately as possible for you.

During your reading, you will want to be present and as grounded as possible. We usually receive pieces of information, so it’s important to be able to actively engage in the process. Readings are interactive, so if the Psychic makes a statement please respond accordingly. One of the best things to do and also one of the hardest, is to release expectations for your reading. My clients who remained open during their session seem to be the ones who have experienced the most healing or experienced the strongest connections during their sessions. I believe that is because Spirit knows what’s best for us and will give us messages that we need, not necessarily what we want to hear.

If you take the steps listed in this series before hiring a Medium or Psychic to work with, you should be able to find one that you can trust and avoid being taken advantage of by doing all of your homework first. With this recipe in place, you can feel confident that you are working with an ethical professional and that you can experience a great reading!

Cate Coffelt is an award winning Evidential Medium and Psychic and can be reached at

Author: Cate Coffelt

August 28, 2020No comments, , , , , , , , , , , , , best american psychics | Psychic | psychic reading
Before You Hire A Psychic Medium – Part Three

Are you looking for a good Psychic or Animal Communicator? One thing to know is that with a Psychic or Animal Communication Reading, a good Reader will tune into your energy or that of your living pet and be able to give you validations and either provide you intuitive guidance or
answers for your questions. But this doesn’t mean we know EVERYTHING about you or your pet! We tune into your energy and like a radio receiver, we pick up pieces of information. Psychic readings should help you feel empowered or provide you with information that will help you. Some Psychics offer predictions, while others offer more life guidance using their intuition. Some use tools like Tarot or Oracle Cards to assist them, while many Readers use no tools during a reading. Which type of Psychic is best for you? It’s about what style you prefer and what you are comfortable with.

But what happens if you feel the reading is off? Or something isn’t quite right?

In Part Two of my “Before You Hire a Psychic Medium”, we learned about Medium readings and how to recognize when you are in a situation where you are being taken advantage of or even involved in a scam. So how does this look different with a Psychic Reading?

First of all, just as with a Medium Reading, you will want to make sure the Psychic is giving you validations and details that make sense to you. The details do not have to be 100% accurate, but you should be able to understand most of the information they are sharing. Also, are they
asking you a lot of leading questions, like I discussed in Part Two of my series? If so, stop the reading and walk away. If they are using cards, pay attention to see if they are reading the descriptions of the cards or if they are also using their intuition. As long as you feel that the reading is helping you, this is a good sign that you are with an ethical Psychic.

But if you start to feel something like something isn’t right, pay attention. Again, the Psychic should never scare you during the reading. You should also never walk away from a reading feeling like there is no hope for your situation. You may not receive the answer you want, but you should receive some information that will help you heal, empower you or help identify how you can overcome any obstacles that may be getting in your way.

If a Psychic starts to share negative information with you and suggests that they can help you for more money, pay attention. Sometimes a Reader may initially get you in for a session for a really low price, but you may find them telling you that you need to come back and it will usually be for a good amount of extra money. An unethical Psychic may start small at first, but they will keep you in fear and have you coming back for different types of services, promising you that you will be one step closer to the outcome you’re trying to achieve. They may even blame you if you don’t see the results that you had been promised. If you start to notice a pattern similar to this, cut the cord! An ethical Psychic will advise and prefer that you take weeks or months before booking another session.

One thing you can do to ensure that you find a reputable Psychic is to do your homework as I stated in Part One of my series. Also, it’s best not to be in a hurry to find a Psychic! An impulsive choice can lead to a poor outcome. However, if you find yourself with an urgent need for some quick advice, look for organizations that screen and tests their Psychics. You may want to search for Psychics and Mediums who continue their education in addition to having been on their own healing journeys. Seek referrals. Empower yourself so you can trust the Psychic you are with, avoid getting scammed and walk away with a wonderful reading!

In Part Four, we will look at how to find the best Psychic Medium for you, and the steps you can take so you can experience a great reading!

Cate Coffelt is an award winning Evidential Medium and Psychic and can be reached at

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