Energetically we are built with 12 chakras. Our physical body is constructed around seven chakras. These seven chakras are our core essence. Then there are two chakras above our heads, one chakra below our feet, a chakra in each palm of our hands and soles of our feet. Each of these chakras is connected to a life-line, or Hara line that reaches from the Akashic field of energy to deep into the earth. Finally, an energy system, called the 12th chakra, connects the meridian points of your body to your auric field, what I call your energy bubble or the energy sphere that surrounds you.
The 12th chakra extends all the way to your energetic edge or bubble. There are filters on the edge of the energy bubble allowing information through to the 12th chakra which then carries the information to the physical body and the chakras. This energy passes through etheric layers before reaching the core self. It is made up of a mental layer, emotional layer and physical layer, with the physical layer being the closest to your body.
The seven chakras make up the core of your energetic self. This core is the energy that runs your “ship.” It is unique to you, it is precious to you. If the core melts down, the ship (your body and consciousness) is going with it.
In a healthy relationship we blend our energies with another, we give and take energies in the form of communication. We do this through our energy bubble and our 12th chakra. This information flows to our core. The person’s personal core energy stays with them and yours with you. You are connected, but you are not draining vital force energies.
You are meant to interact through your energy bubble and the 12th chakra that surrounds you. If there is a break, breech, or tear in your core energetic system you may begin to exchange and “bleed” your vital forces. When that happens you become vulnerable to negative outside influences and can be affected in many subtle and out-of-balanced ways in relationships before you even realize it.
Breaks can come from trauma and unresolved issues in our lives. Other people can make tears in our energy system. They can throw energetic tentacles into our energetic system to drain or control us. We can also unconsciously do the same to others. When we are in a relationship or beginning a relationship, these out-of-balance energies affect us and they affect the way we interact with another person.
- You loose track of who you are.
- You may loose personal power to the relationship.
- You may make choices that are not in your best interest for your highest good.
- You become addicted to the relationship.
- Your personal perceptions become skewed.
- You engage with the wrong person for you BECAUSE your energy is out of balance.
- You feel depleted.
- You are attracted to people who are not good for you.
You can change that pattern through personal work and with an energy healer.
Understanding yourself energetically is immensely helpful at the early phases of a relationship. “Who am I?” resonates with your solar plexus chakra – the energy center between your ribcage and your navel. “Who am I sexually?” resonates with your sacral chakra – energy center just below your navel. You broadcast (unconsciously) from these centers to magnetize/attract partners to you. What if these energy centers are broken and not functioning to their highest best? Who would you be attracting then?
When you find yourself out of your personal power, pull back. Open your Akashic records and connect with your Angels and guides. Make your intention to be in the healing mode in Akashic Field of Energy. Begin the session. Imagine you are sitting in a bubble of your own energy. Imagine the bubble contains your core essence, Imagine expanding that bubble beyond your body. How does it feel? Now imagine pulling the bubble in close to your body. Do you sense any subtle pulls or tugs physically or emotionally? That is a cord.
Disengage any core chakras that are involved in the relationship. Imagine disconnecting from the force that is pulling at you. Ask your higher guidance to assist you. Then, ask your spiritual team to build a layer of protection and healing around you and your core essence. Ask your spiritual team for assistance on how to engage in a balanced exchange from your 12th chakra and energy bubble.
Now you can re-engage with the relationship with your 12th chakra. Imagine pulling your core essence close to your physical body. Imagine a separate, flexible bubble surrounding you. This is your 12th chakra. Allow this separate bubble to now engage in this relationship. This will help you get some distance.
Invite your sacred witness self to observe the relationship. This quiet observation will help you clearly discern what is going on. Observe the difference in your viewpoint of this relationship when you engage your energy differently.
Love deeply, love well and stay balanced!
Author: Nancy Smith