Twin flames run from a twin flame connection for various reasons. This can include fear of vulnerability, unresolved past traumas and not being ready for the intensity of the relationship. In addition, self-doubt and feelings of unworthiness can also hold some twin flames back from embracing the fullness of this spiritual relationship.
Many twin flames run away because the overwhelming intensity of the connection becomes too much to handle. The twin flame bond consumes them completely, which can be frightening for many. The flood of emotions can feel suffocating and make some feel like they’re drowning.
ARE THEY HANDLING THEIR FEELINGS?
When a twin flame enters someone’s life, it shatters the emotional walls they have built to protect themselves, making them feel vulnerable. Many adults have learned to handle their emotions in a way that makes them feel safe. These coping mechanisms go out the window when faced with the intensity of a twin flame connection. Such vulnerability can be uncomfortable and daunting, especially if it’s something never experienced before.
When twin flames first meet there’s a sense of euphoria where both go with the flow and enjoy the experience. However, this state of bliss can be short-lived as the logical side of the brain begins to question if this connection is real. This may lead to confusion as the brain throws out questions like: What the hell are you doing? How can you be acting like this? Explain how you can feel this way with someone you just met? Have you lost your mind? What if you get hurt?
This can really scare many twin flames as they don’t have a way to rationalize what they are feeling and experiencing.
FEAR MAKES TWIN FLAMES RUN
Twin flames often run away and disappear due to their fear of the intense and confusing connection. The lack of rational explanation for this intense bond can be overwhelming, causing them to retreat and avoid confronting their emotions. They may suddenly block all forms of communication and act as if their spiritual counterpart doesn’t exist.
The real purpose of a twin flame connection is for personal growth, self-improvement, and spiritual awakening. They need to face and address certain issues that are holding them back. Ultimately, it is the journey to becoming and living life as your most authentic self. This involves making changes in their lives such healing past traumas and overcoming fears that hold them back. Rather than seeking support and making changes, many choose to remain stagnant and unchanging in their behavior.
Running away from a twin flame connection will only make the situation worse. The connection is designed to help them rise and overcome challenges, not avoid them. Those who choose to walk away from their twin flame, instead of working through and healing their issues, make a conscious choice. So, it’s important to remember that a twin flame is not running from you. They are running from themselves as well as the work they need to do to create and live their best life.
As hard as it is, the best thing you can do is respect their choices and let them learn from their mistakes. The universe will help them realize the errors of their ways, so trying to teach them, is a waste of your time and energy. It’s so important to allow them to evolve and grow in their own time, even though it’s difficult. Trust that when they return, they will be a better version of themselves.